bodies.

One of the most shocking things I have seen while working is the change our bodies go through as we age. The wrinkles on ones face and hands are visible, but the transformation of everything isn't. Physically and psychologically. I don't mean to say 'shocking' in a negative context ... it's more of a, surprise, at how much our bodies can change over a life time.

It got me thinking. Does anything really combat the telltale signs of aging? Everyone ages, birthdays always reappear. But do the creams, lotions, pills, etc. really help at the end of day?

So far, from what I can tell, smoking seems to be the worst things for aging. Many of the residents who smoke are accompanied by cancer, sour lungs, O2 tanks, etc. Although they may not always be directly connected, the relationships is very, very close. Along with alcohol abuse.

However, I have seen the influence of family on the attitude and well being of the residents. Sometimes the difference between those with support and those without is evident from just entering their room. The oldest folks at the home are surrounded by family, and though not entirely healthy, they are genuinely happy. On the other hand, those struggling with depression are often lonely and devoid of family support.

I know that these are generalities, but it does make some sense. Children and teens are heavily influenced by their family networks - and since seniors sometimes revert back to a child-like state, who is to say that the connection doesn't rebuild itself?

D.